Do you have a funny feeling that something’s not quite right with your relationship? Pay attention. That might be a heads up that she’s cheating. Actually, there’s a couple of other ways to tell if your girlfriend is cheating. Of course, these are only signs. Don’t make a fool of yourself without having evidence.

Have you seen a sudden change in appearance? Maybe a bit more glamorous? That could be an indicator she’s cheating. An appearance upgrade could be a sign that your lady is cheating on you. Was your girlfriend once the pretty but plain Jane? Then, bang! She starts wearing fancy clothes and starts spending a lot of time in front of the mirror. It’s not unusual for a woman to change her appearance when she wants to be attractive. Of course, you remember how she used to do herself up right to impress you. Check it out. Is she making an effort to look really hot on her supposed night out with the girls?

A second sign may be the amount of time she starts spending away from you. Is “going out with the girls” starting to be more of a habit than it used to be? That’s another sign that your girlfriend is cheating. Is she really spending all that extra time at work or with or friends? Something is wrong with the relationship or she’s cheating, those are the two most common reasons for her spending less and less time with you.

Your third hint will be withdrawal of affection. Or if frequency of sex has diminished or disappeared altogether. As a rule, women are affectionate creatures, so something is probably wrong if the loving diminishes or disappears. This could be a sign she’s cheating, specially if she was usually affectionate but now that attitude has tapered off. Does it seem like she’s acting when she holds you? Are there no more kisses goodbye?

Perhaps the folks that you and your girl used to hang out with are starting to avoid you. That could be the fourth indicator. Do you notice that her best friend is avoiding you during parties? How are her work friends treating you? Sort of cold? Often, these folks will have discovered the infidelity before you have and they may be avoiding you to forestall getting involved. Folks just don’t want to play favorites and thus get involved in a fidelity feud. Don’t overly press those who have been dodging you, but gently grab them by the elbow and ask them to talk to you about your girlfriend.

When the lies start, that’s your fifth clue that she’s been cheating on you. Are your girlfriend’s lies starting to catch up with her? Perhaps she has used some of her friends to help her cover her tracks. Cheaters are liars. They have to be. That’s how they try to get away with cheating. Too much detail. Too much explanation. These are both obvious signs of a lie. The truth about lies is that they are the best tip-off that your girl is cheating on you.

Sometimes it only takes one instance of the activities mentioned above to figure out you’re being cheated. If you discover more than one, you’re probably the victim of your girlfriend’s cheating. Watch what you do. These signs are pretty good evidence of what’s going on, but you need solid evidence before you start making accusations. Otherwise, you’ll be turning yourself into a big jerk.

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