While the word ‘etiquette’ often comes off a bit lofty, the idea behind it is simply to show good manners and be polite. It’s a matter of respect for those around you. Hopefully, the result is that you’ll be treated well in return. Even if you think you have a grasp on how to behave in public, take a moment to brush up on the following tips:

1. The everyday stuff. It’s amazing how a simple “please” and “thank you” can make any exchange more pleasant and civilized. No one wants to be ordered around, right? Another of the basics is how to behave when meeting someone new. Always offer a hand for a shake and comment about how nice it is to meet the person. If there are others in close proximity, make sure to introduce them as well. Finally, never interrupt someone when they are speaking, wait your turn.

2. Table manners to live by. You probably already know never to talk with your mouth full of food, be we all need a reminder now and then. What you have to say will wait until you enjoy the bite you have just taken. Your napkin should stay on your lap when not in use until you have completed your meal, and your elbows should never rest on the table. Another biggie is to leave the room before blowing your nose every single time.

3. Treat strangers with patience. While it’s annoying to be stuck in traffic or caught up in a long line, it’s also a test of your manners. Never act as if your day is more important than anyone else’s. If you go to a movie or live theater event, respect the story-telling that is going on by keeping as quiet as possible. That means no cell phones and if you must have a snack, don’t make noise as you open your food wrapper.

4. Be a gracious host. If you’ve thought enough to invite people to your home, make sure you take it one step further to ensure their comfort while there. Never ask anyone to remove their shoes before coming in. It’s just odd; spring for regular carpet cleaning instead. Make sure that your guests are all introduced to each other and have been offered refreshments. It’s also your job to make sure the conversation flows nicely and without uncomfortable triggers such as religion and politics.

5. Manners shine through over the phone. Answering machines and voicemail have proven to be a great tool in connecting with people. However, they can also be a source of rudeness if you’re not careful. Don’t let your young children take over the duties of leaving the family message. Cute to some, annoying to most, these tasks are better left to adults who can be brief and to the point. Make sure there is no annoying background noise to get in the way of clear communication. If you make it simple for people to reach you and say what they need to say, it’s all good.

Julie Robinson writes on general interest and education topics including accredited online colleges and scholarships for academic performance.